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When Hospitals Become All Too Familiar Places

When you live with and care for someone who has a severe injury, chronic pain, or chronic health conditions, the everyday normalities of your life can look quite different than those of everyone else. For example, the amount of time one spends in the hospital.

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Styles of Grieving: Blended and Dissonant

Research suggests that grieving styles exist on a continuum, and we tend to be either intuitive or instrumental grievers. Sometimes, our grieving style can be categorized as blended or dissonant.

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Understanding Secondary Losses

The death of someone close to us is a primary loss, but with it comes a number of other losses resulting from that death. These are called secondary losses.

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The Grief Literacy Movement

Grief literacy is “knowledge to facilitate understanding of grief and loss, skills to enable supportive action, and values of compassion and care.”

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Let’s Talk about Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Even if you know nothing else about grief, you probably know the name Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. Even if you don’t know her name, you almost certainly know her work, as she created the five stages of grief.

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What is a Death Salon?

A Death Salon is a gatherings of intellectuals that “encourages conversations on mortality and mourning and their resonating effects on our culture and history.”

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The Many Faces of Grief

Grief is much more than one emotion. Read this post to learn about some of the other common grief reactions and emotions.

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What is Death Over Dinner?

Death Over Dinner events are trying to address the disconnect between the universality of death and society’s discomfort in discussing it.

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The Power of a Name

One gift we can give to a griever is to ask for and then use their person’s name. It honours not only the deceased person but also their grieving loved one.

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What NOT to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

There are many common phrases that we naturally reach for when we learn that someone has died. However, more often than not these statements—meant with sincere intentions—often minimize someone’s experience and can make them feel worse.

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What is a Death Café?

Death Cafés provide an opportunity for people to gather and talk about issues related to death.

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